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Guess who is exploiting and taking advantage of my vulnerability and trust? My uncle. He can use any of my mistakes that he finds to justify bullying and mocking me. I don't even have money to pay for his liquid petroleum gas for cooking. I am really sad, and no one cares. I am still a student with so many debts that I can't pay. It's around RM50,000. What does he expect? Taking advantage of me? Using my inability to pay his bills and for LPG, and when I'm at my worst, it's time for him to kick me out of his house. I am actually homeless. But that terribly destroyed house doesn't count. My father wanted me to stay at my uncle's house for stable electricity. #FamilyIssues #Struggle #Support #Homeless #StudentLife #Debt #EmotionalAbuse #Bullying #Vulnerability #Trust #Hope #Vent #MentalHealth #IAmTheProduct #MutualAid #NoOneCares

We Can Hurt the Ones We Love When Recovering From Abuse
When recovering from abuse - particularly abuse from someone using narcissistic techniques - it's common for the recovering person to end up hurting the people who are in the healthiest relationships with them.
ideatrash.net/2020/03/we-can-h
#abuse #emotionalabuse #narcissists #recovery

"Bad" Black Kids & Plantation Parenting - Sunn M'Cheaux
Vulnerable little mammals, kids, ought to be safe from grown folks' + police brutality.
"Only the strong survive" might get us through some horrors but not unscathed.
#education #kids #adultification #epigenetics #history #innocence #Parenting #community #AdultSupremacy #Trauma #SchoolToPrisonPipeline
#CorporalPunishment
#ChildAbuse #nonconsensual #Spanking #Whooping #Hitting #EmotionalAbuse
#BreakingGenerationalCurses
#BlackMastodon

mom: you're not even trying to find a job, are you?

I fill out applications. They get sorted by an automated system and fall through the cracks.

mom: you need to try harder

what do you want me to do? offer a handjob with every application? this is the reality of job searching in 2024. everything is automated and nobody fucking cares about your struggle to find work

mom: you're just lazy

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#Devaluation is #EmotionalAbuse. I didn't learn about it until a few years ago. It harms your soul, spirit & belief in yourself. It's insidious. It leads you to apologize to your abusers. It takes a long time, with lots of therapy & support, to heal from abusive devaluation of your personhood.

It's very normal to suffer multiple trauma responses after years of your personhood be devalued by someone you love. Healing can be hella messy. We owe it to ourselves, to do our healing work 💗