Guess who is exploiting and taking advantage of my vulnerability and trust? My uncle. He can use any of my mistakes that he finds to justify bullying and mocking me. I don't even have money to pay for his liquid petroleum gas for cooking. I am really sad, and no one cares. I am still a student with so many debts that I can't pay. It's around RM50,000. What does he expect? Taking advantage of me? Using my inability to pay his bills and for LPG, and when I'm at my worst, it's time for him to kick me out of his house. I am actually homeless. But that terribly destroyed house doesn't count. My father wanted me to stay at my uncle's house for stable electricity. #FamilyIssues #Struggle #Support #Homeless #StudentLife #Debt #EmotionalAbuse #Bullying #Vulnerability #Trust #Hope #Vent #MentalHealth #IAmTheProduct #MutualAid #NoOneCares
Childhood emotional abuse linked to workplace conflicts in power-seeking employees https://www.psypost.org/childhood-emotional-abuse-linked-to-workplace-conflicts-in-power-seeking-employees/?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=mastodon #ChildhoodAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #WorkplaceConflict #PowerDynamics #MentalHealth
Though the scars run deep, know you have the strength to reclaim your life. Each step is a triumph. Be kind, surround yourself with support. You are a survivor, not a victim. Your story is one of resilience. Trust the process, honor your feelings. You deserve to feel safe, respected. Believe in your ability to heal.
- Seb
#EmotionalAbuse #Survivor #HealingIsAProcess #SelfLove
We Can Hurt the Ones We Love When Recovering From Abuse
When recovering from abuse - particularly abuse from someone using narcissistic techniques - it's common for the recovering person to end up hurting the people who are in the healthiest relationships with them.
https://ideatrash.net/2020/03/we-can-hurt-the-ones-we-love-when-recovering-from-abuse.html?feed_id=466&_unique_id=672a75f3bae87
#abuse #emotionalabuse #narcissists #recovery
It Ain't Victim Blaming When I Choose To Be The Victim
You always have a choice.
https://ideatrash.net/2021/08/it-aint-victim-blaming-when-i-choose-to-be-the-victim.html?feed_id=454&_unique_id=67237c443872b
#abuse #boundaries #emotionalabuse
Traumas we tend to invalidate:
- #bullying
- #infertility
- #ChronicIllness
- #EmotionalAbuse
- #burnout
- multiple losses
- #FinancialInsecurity
- witnessing #violence
- #infidelity
- being #unemployed
- #abuse from authority figures
- breakup or #divorce
- #ForcedMigration
- undiagnosed #MentalHealth problems
Traumas we tend to invalidate:
- #bullying
- #infertility
- #ChronicIllness
- #EmotionalAbuse
- #burnout
- multiple losses
- #FinancialInsecurity
- witnessing #violence
- #infidelity
- being #unemployed
- #abuse from authority figures
- breakup or #divorce
- #ForcedMigration
- undiagnosed #MentalHealth problems
"Bad" Black Kids & Plantation Parenting - Sunn M'Cheaux
Vulnerable little mammals, kids, ought to be safe from grown folks' + police brutality.
"Only the strong survive" might get us through some horrors but not unscathed.
#education #kids #adultification #epigenetics #history #innocence #Parenting #community #AdultSupremacy #Trauma #SchoolToPrisonPipeline
#CorporalPunishment
#ChildAbuse #nonconsensual #Spanking #Whooping #Hitting #EmotionalAbuse
#BreakingGenerationalCurses
#BlackMastodon
Abuse comes in many forms: physical, emotional, psychological, and financial. It's time to recognize all faces of abuse and take a stand. Remember, it's not your fault. We are here to help. #EndAbuse #SupportSurvivors #DomesticViolenceAwareness #EmotionalAbuse #FinancialAbuse #PhysicalAbuse #PsychologicalAbuse #WeAreHereToHelp #StopTheViolence #FamilyLaw #LegalSupport #YouAreNotAlone
Society says that we should tolerate and accept abuse from family members, but somehow learn that we need to set clear, healthy boundaries in our partnerships.
3/4
mom: you're not even trying to find a job, are you?
I fill out applications. They get sorted by an automated system and fall through the cracks.
mom: you need to try harder
what do you want me to do? offer a handjob with every application? this is the reality of job searching in 2024. everything is automated and nobody fucking cares about your struggle to find work
mom: you're just lazy
#Devaluation is #EmotionalAbuse. I didn't learn about it until a few years ago. It harms your soul, spirit & belief in yourself. It's insidious. It leads you to apologize to your abusers. It takes a long time, with lots of therapy & support, to heal from abusive devaluation of your personhood.
It's very normal to suffer multiple trauma responses after years of your personhood be devalued by someone you love. Healing can be hella messy. We owe it to ourselves, to do our healing work
#Medical #article likens Republican's #genderaffirming #Healthcare #bans to Criminal #Medical #Neglect and #EmotionalAbuse.
It states that these #bills are denying children access to ”routine #healthcare that has been shown to decrease dramatically high rates of #suicide and #depression...”
#Women #Transgender #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #Washington #Seattle #TransKids #Healthcare #RepublicanParty #Hate #Bigotry #Violence #Genocide #Discrimination #Transphobia #ThePartyOfHate
https://www.thepinknews.com/2024/01/19/gender-affirming-care-ban-abuse/
Statistics regarding #violenceagainstwomen have only increased since #COVID19... #psychologicalabuse #emotionalabuse #physicalabuse #domesticvioance