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Raven (she/her) :sparkling_trans_heart: :fedora: :neodog_verified:<blockquote>what i have found, and what you may find, is that relationships and love are much more complex and nuanced than romantic versus platonic</blockquote>Tuck Malloy in "Expansive Love"<a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/relationshipanarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#relationshipanarchy</a>

PaulaAfterDark<a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/Introduction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Introduction</a> time!I'm Paula she/her. By day I'm <a href="https://climatejustice.social/@PaulaToThePeople" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@PaulaToThePeople</a>. After dark (at night, during depressions or other mental health crises) I turn into this.I'll post followers-only (this is an exception) and followers will be reviewed, though I'm not too picky.Topics: queer <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/MentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#MentalHealth</a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/asexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#asexual</a> love <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/depression" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#depression</a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/QueerPlatonic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#QueerPlatonic</a> whatever <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/SocialAnxiety" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#SocialAnxiety</a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/NotJustAfraid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#NotJustAfraid</a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/NonBinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#NonBinary</a> life <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/RelationshipAnarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipAnarchy</a> tbd and probably a bit <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/Platon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Platon</a> (my dog)

Serdar Güneş“When the prevailing unquestioned narrative maintains that there is only one way to live a good and happy life, too many people end up miserable"By Mandy Len Catron<a href="https://todon.eu/tags/relationshipanarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#relationshipanarchy</a><a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/07/case-against-marriage/591973/" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/07/case-against-marriage/591973/</a>

Raven (she/her) :sparkling_trans_heart: :fedora: :neodog_verified:the first 2 parts of the relationship anarchy manifesto are just solid pieces of advice i need reminders of often:Love is abundant, and every relationship is unique<blockquote>Relationship anarchy questions the idea that love is a limited resource that can only be real if restricted to a couple. You have capacity to love more than one person, and one relationship and the love felt for that person does not diminish love felt for another. Don’t rank and compare people and relationships — cherish the individual and your connection to them. One person in your life does not need to be named primary for the relationship to be real. Each relationship is independent, and a relationship between autonomous individuals.</blockquote>Love and respect instead of entitlement<blockquote>Deciding to not base a relationship on a foundation of entitlement is about respecting others’ independence and self-determination. Your feelings for a person or your history together does not make you entitled to command and control a partner to comply with what is considered normal to do in a relationship. Explore how you can engage without stepping over boundaries and personal beliefs. Rather than looking for compromises in every situation, let loved ones choose paths that keep their integrity intact, without letting this mean a crisis for the relationship. Staying away from entitlement and demands is the only way to be sure that you are in a relationship that is truly mutual. Love is not more “real” when people compromise for each other because it’s part of what’s expected.</blockquote><a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/relationshipanarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#relationshipanarchy</a>

YHSI<a href="https://chaos.social/@catileptic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@catileptic</a> heartbreak is still heartbreak no matter how much theory you put behind your relationships. Feel hugged if you like 🫂 from someone who feels heartbroken and super thrilled because of NRE at he same time and does not know what to do with this feelings no matter how much <a href="https://social.tchncs.de/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> and <a href="https://social.tchncs.de/tags/RelationshipAnarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipAnarchy</a> theory he digests.

PaulaToThePeople 😷<a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/BooksAgainstNormativity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#BooksAgainstNormativity</a> Hey, I'd like to start a collection of books, that are great eye-openers against normative concepts.I have read 2 books so far, that I think fit:<a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/Ace" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Ace</a> by <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/AngelaChen" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#AngelaChen</a>: Maybe the standard work on asexuality and a great book to understand and question allo-normativity (allo(sexual) being the opposite of ace/asexual)<a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/Platonic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Platonic</a> by <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/MarisaGFranco" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#MarisaGFranco</a>: An homage to platonic partnerships and against romantic normativity or also allo normativity (allo(romantic) being the opposite of aromantic here)I'm next looking for a book on <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/RelationshipAnarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipAnarchy</a> to add to the list. Is there like a go-to book or must read? Please let me know.Also do you know of any other books, that fit into the collection? It can be about/against any kind of normativity, not just related to gender, relationships and identity. <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/BooksTodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#BooksTodon</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/BookRecommendation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#BookRecommendation</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/normativity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#normativity</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/asexuality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#asexuality</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/asexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#asexual</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/aromantic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#aromantic</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/RelationshipAnarchism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipAnarchism</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/QueerFeminism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#QueerFeminism</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/HeteroNormativity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#HeteroNormativity</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/AlloNormativity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#AlloNormativity</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/monogamy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#monogamy</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/patriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#patriarchy</a>

PaulaToThePeople 😷I had a really great <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/AroAce" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#AroAce</a> community evening today.I learned about <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/RelationshipAnarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipAnarchy</a> and the <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/Sm%C3%B6rgasbord" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Smörgasbord</a> and we discussed why people in amatonormative couple relationships, who turn from two "I"s into a "we" find it so hard to use "I-messages" in conflicts, but have no trouble using "you-accusations".This pride month I want to learn more about different relationship types and possibilities and want to find a definition of "friendship" for myself.Feel free to give me input.<a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/ace" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ace</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/asexuality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#asexuality</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/pride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#pride</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/PrideMonth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#PrideMonth</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#queer</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/QueerPride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#QueerPride</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#relationships</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/friendship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#friendship</a>

Different ThanI have a friend who is pretty much a <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/Republican" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Republican</a> by default (i.e., he claims to be apolitical but only consistently avoids political topics when the Republican position is the status quo; he will comment on other issues). He might be trying out a new "open mindedness" thing, though, and he once even claimed to be "more or less an <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/Anarchist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Anarchist</a>" at heart.I'm making a list of <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/questions" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#questions</a> to ask him about <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/anarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#anarchy</a>. They were significantly more provocative until my partner (who is very good at this kind of thing) offered some rewordings:Anarchy questions<ul><li>How do you feel about the unrestricted movement of people? (i.e., <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/OpenBorders" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#OpenBorders</a>) </li><li>What are your thoughts on loving relationships (romantic/sexual) with multiple partners (i.e., more than 2), where everyone consents, up to and including marriage? (i.e., <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamory</a>, <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/RelationshipAnarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipAnarchy</a>, etc.)</li><li>How would you feel about your children having an equal voice in their education, along with all other individuals that are a part of their school around decisions like hours of operation, topics taught, hiring, etc.? (i.e., <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/AlternativeSchools" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#AlternativeSchools</a>, <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/AlternativeEducation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#AlternativeEducation</a>)</li><li>What are your thoughts about individual police accountability when officers break laws? </li><li>What is your cost/benefit analysis of the existence of <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/police" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#police</a>?</li><li>What is your cost/benefit analysis of the existence and/or current implementation of <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/prisons" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#prisons</a>?</li><li>What are your thoughts on people inhabiting abandoned houses they don't own? (i.e., <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/squatting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#squatting</a>)</li><li>What do you think about <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/RightToRoam" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RightToRoam</a> (i.e., even private land should allow people to freely pass through, temporarily camp, etc.)? </li></ul>Notes:<ul><li>I'm purposefully staying away from questions about capitalism, socialism, or other economic systems; I think his brain would just shut down.</li><li>Same with LGBTQIA+ issues; he's LDS (and devout), so that will run directly into current doctrine/practice/programming and end the discussion.</li><li>I'm just sharing this to share; I don't need feedback or suggestions but am open to them. </li><li>I do not believe I can call myself an anarchist. I resonate strongly with many anarchist principles but I don't walk the walk and there are some issues I'm not totally comfortable with.</li></ul><a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/persuasion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#persuasion</a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/ProbablyWontWork" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ProbablyWontWork</a>

SarafinaGoddag til andre i denne online økosystem! 🌿 <a href="https://radikal.social/tags/introduktion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#introduktion</a> 🦠 Jeg er en "art"ivist, der brænder for norm-transformering gennem kunst: Skriver, performer og faciliterer co-creative begivenheder i Aarhus 🪹 Især interesseret i <a href="https://radikal.social/tags/mad" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#mad</a> og relationer 🪱 <a href="https://radikal.social/tags/Fermentering" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Fermentering</a> <a href="https://radikal.social/tags/FoodJustice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#FoodJustice</a> <a href="https://radikal.social/tags/ActLocalThinkGlobal" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ActLocalThinkGlobal</a> <a href="https://radikal.social/tags/Queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Queer</a> <a href="https://radikal.social/tags/EcoSexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#EcoSexual</a> <a href="https://radikal.social/tags/SexPositiv" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#SexPositiv</a> <a href="https://radikal.social/tags/RelationshipAnarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipAnarchy</a> <a href="https://radikal.social/tags/heks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#heks</a>Jeg vil dele her, hvad jeg laver, og til at blive inspireret af jeres former for aktivisme 💚

Commodore FrenchieInterests: <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/ttitd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ttitd</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/chiangmai" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#chiangmai</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/iatse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#iatse</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/billhicks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#billhicks</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/thelotradio" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#thelotradio</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/raypeat" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#raypeat</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/vitamins" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#vitamins</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/neurotropics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#neurotropics</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/kava" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#kava</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/wfmu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#wfmu</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/freepalestine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#freepalestine</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/standup" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#standup</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#queer</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/metoo" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#metoo</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/vinylrecords" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#vinylrecords</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/sustainablejackassery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#sustainablejackassery</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/deephouse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#deephouse</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/nudisco" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#nudisco</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/passiveagressivespotifymixes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#passiveagressivespotifymixes</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/relationshipanarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#relationshipanarchy</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/livingtrust" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#livingtrust</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/PFAS" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#PFAS</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/pubmed" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#pubmed</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/sexpositive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#sexpositive</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/drag" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#drag</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/nonbinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#nonbinary</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/farang" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#farang</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/jfk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#jfk</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/film" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#film</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/lighting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#lighting</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/electricity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#electricity</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/sagacomic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#sagacomic</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/suckinonachilidog" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#suckinonachilidog</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/thehumanleague" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#thehumanleague</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/djkoze" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#djkoze</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/cptsd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#cptsd</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/psilocybin" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#psilocybin</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/cacophonysociety" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#cacophonysociety</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/theburningman" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#theburningman</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/gabormate" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#gabormate</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/unions" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#unions</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/labor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#labor</a> <a href="https://dpw.social/tags/science" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#science</a>

Nat Oleander<a href="https://partyon.xyz/tags/misterrogers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#misterrogers</a> <a href="https://partyon.xyz/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamory</a> <a href="https://partyon.xyz/tags/polyam" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyam</a> <a href="https://partyon.xyz/tags/relationshipanarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#relationshipanarchy</a> <a href="https://partyon.xyz/tags/relationshipanarchist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#relationshipanarchist</a> <a href="https://partyon.xyz/tags/anarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#anarchy</a> <a href="https://partyon.xyz/tags/nonmonogamy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#nonmonogamy</a> <a href="https://partyon.xyz/tags/nonmonogamous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#nonmonogamous</a>

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Alex Ștefănescumy wager was that a philosophical enquiry into liveable anarchy and how that can be put into practice through <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/relationshipanarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#relationshipanarchy</a> would be welcome at <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/38c3" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#38c3</a> - and oh, i felt it found its place!<a href="https://catileptic.tech/posts/relationship-anarchy/" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank">https://catileptic.tech/posts/relationship-anarchy/</a>i am thankful to each person who offered their thoughts. thankful for all the lovely conversations we had around the subject.the <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/relationshipgeeks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#relationshipgeeks</a> assembly was a cozy and safe home for all these connections and the orga team has been phenomenal. stay safe, folx!

Alex ȘtefănescuI will host a workshop on Relationship Anarchy, based on this zine (and on all the excellent talks I've had with folx and things I've read - it's all a lovely jumble!) at <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/38C3" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#38C3</a> on Day 2:<a href="https://events.ccc.de/congress/2024/hub/en/event/privacy-settings-irl-balancing-privacy-and-disclos/" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank">https://events.ccc.de/congress/2024/hub/en/event/privacy-settings-irl-balancing-privacy-and-disclos/</a>Right after that, <a href="https://chaos.social/@einalex" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@einalex</a> and myself will facilitate a conversation on "Concepts beyond Hierarchy" at the Relationship Geeks assembly:<a href="https://events.ccc.de/congress/2024/hub/en/event/priorities-needs-and-power-dynamics-concepts-beyon/" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank">https://events.ccc.de/congress/2024/hub/en/event/priorities-needs-and-power-dynamics-concepts-beyon/</a><a href="https://chaos.social/tags/relationshipanarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#relationshipanarchy</a>

Alex ȘtefănescuI've published a zine on Relationship Anarchy, subtitled "Dreaming in the Belly of the Whale": <a href="https://catileptic.tech/posts/relationship-anarchy/" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank">https://catileptic.tech/posts/relationship-anarchy/</a>I'm vibrating from head to toe with excitement that I finally put my thoughts into words, all in one place, and I can offer them to others. This zine is the result of countless excellent talks with lovely folx. It's also the result of reading Victor Vilisov and Slavoj Žižek, as well as many other texts that expanded my mind and nuanced my thinking.<a href="https://chaos.social/tags/relationshipanarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#relationshipanarchy</a>

🏳️‍🌈AlexHi <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/38c3" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#38c3</a> !We are <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/RelationshipGeeks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipGeeks</a>, an initiative to create a community of beings, interested in ethical relationships free from societal norms.Since yesterday our assembly was green lit, I wanted to invite you to drop by and hang out with us at congress.We've prepared an interesting program* of workshops and conversations that I'll introduce in future posts under the above hashtag.Stay tuned ;)*) significant parts of this will support English <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/Polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Polyamory</a> <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/RelationshipAnarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipAnarchy</a> <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/RA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RA</a> <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/ENM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ENM</a>

🏳️‍🌈AlexHi <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/38C3" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#38C3</a> !Wir sind <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/RelationshipGeeks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipGeeks</a>, eine Initiative um chaosnahe Menschen mit Interesse an ethischen Beziehungen jenseits gesellschaftlicher Normen zusammen zu bringen.Da gestern unsere Assembly zugelassen wurde, möchte ich euch heute einladen, auf dem Congress bei uns vorbei zu schauen.Wir haben ein interessantes Program aus Workshops und Gesprächsrunden entworfen, über das ich nachher unter obigem hashtag mehr schreibe.Stay tuned ;)<a href="https://chaos.social/tags/Polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Polyamory</a> <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/RelationshipAnarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipAnarchy</a> <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/RA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RA</a> <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/ENM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ENM</a>

nova (they/them)here’s an <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/introduction" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#introduction</a> now that i have our sharkey server running and stuff!! i go by "nova" (no caps) but generally prefer you don't refer to me by name (but it's ok if you do). they or fae pronouns are cool (see <a href="https://en.pronouns.page/@jellynova" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">https://en.pronouns.page/@jellynova</a> for more deets) i am an <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/AuDHD" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#AuDHD</a> <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/queer" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#queer</a> in my 20’s, living in small town <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/BritishColumbia" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#BritishColumbia</a> (<a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/canada" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#canada</a>). i’m <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/polyamorous" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#polyamorous</a> and probably most aligned with <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/RelationshipAnarchy" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipAnarchy</a>. i am an <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/accountant" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#accountant</a>, but the kind that wants to save the world, not benefit corporations. i like to work on sustainability and with (primarily queer) non-profits. you can expect me to post about queer things (especially on <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/TransTuesday" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#TransTuesday</a>), whatever hyperfixation has me at any moment, and other general life commentary. i'm also mushy about my cute girlfriend and others in my life. i sometimes post lewd on main (with a cw). minors DNI with lewd/nsfw, but you're otherwise welcome to follow :sylveon_pet: i jump around with my hyperfixations a lot but i really like cozy games like <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/AnimalCrossing" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#AnimalCrossing</a> and <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/StardewValley" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#StardewValley</a> and <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/Palia" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Palia</a> and also <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/jrpgs" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#jrpgs</a> and <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/ttrpgs" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ttrpgs</a>. i'm also excited to dive back into <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/minecraft" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#minecraft</a>. i like <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/computers" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#computers</a> and <a href="https://sharkey.stellar.gay/tags/tech" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#tech</a> and doing geeky things as a hobby. i also sometimes do various forms of art badly but probably don’t post them. i like writing poetry and painting scenery mostly recently. i’d love to make some new mutuals, friends, enemies (positive), and other relationships with cool folk 💕

🏳️‍🌈AlexI just registered the Relationship Geek Assembly for <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/38C3" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#38C3</a> We're aiming to create a place for conversation and community, as well as a few workshops on related topics.If you want to get involved, get in touch.<a href="https://chaos.social/tags/RA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RA</a> <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/RelationshipAnarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipAnarchy</a> <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/Polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Polyamory</a>

LiloKennt hier wer kurze, gute Texte zu <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/Polyamorie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Polyamorie</a> , die ich in eine kleine DIY-Zeitschrift packen kann? :MastoLove: :boost: :FediTips: <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#poly</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/FragFedi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#FragFedi</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/RelationshipAnarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RelationshipAnarchy</a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/BeziehungsAnarchie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#BeziehungsAnarchie</a>

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