I just got off the phone with a client who began by asking what he needs to do if he closes his business for a couple of months. As we talked he disclosed that he's been having treatment for prostate cancer. Because of his age, stage of cancer and other variables that are considered for his treatment, the doc is using medicine to suppress his testosterone level... apparently, so much that it's undetectable. And because the human body requires at least one dominant sex hormone or other serious issues will occur, he will require estrogen therapy.
This is the same exact treatment that transwomen go through for gender dysphoria. We suppress our testosterone and increase our estrogen. The difference is our mental, emotional, physical (and for those who have a spiritual inclination) our spiritual well being is drastically improved. For my client this is NOT happening.
He described strong feelings of mental and emotional distress because of what the medicine is doing to his body to treat the cancer. He said his body is "becoming like a woman's."
He has developed gender dysphoria. In not so many words he said it. He said "I understand much better now what transgender people must experience because I don't feel right in my body." He continued by saying "I'm alive but at what cost."
I wish EVERY transphobe would go through this to find this revelation.
I had the same treatment. Huge success, as the cancer is gone and I'm back to my old self again, but what a rollercoaster ride that was.
I went trough months of actual menopause, had my mental state recede back to something resembling what I vaguely recall from being 8 yo or so. Way shorter distance to strong emotions, and also other properties generally associated with being female. Got my tits nuked to stop them from developing too.
Also, as the hormone levels made their way back up, I found myself smelling like a teenager and suddenly got these waves of rage for absolutely no reason. Same as at 13-14…
Weird, and yes - certainly a great education in gender fluidity.
@airwhale
I'm glad the treatment worked so well for you. That's awesome. Amazing time in medical science right?
And this client of mentioned going through a sort of "man-opause" where he experienced some brain fog and severe hot flashes.
Believe it or not... i as a trans girl get hot flashes sometimes when my hormone levels get out of whack for whatever reason.
Suhhhhhhhcks!
And the way shorter distance to strong emotions?...
If I see a commercial with little puppy dogs frolicking in a meadow then...
@airwhale
Yeah, not exactly huh.
@WrenArcher @airwhale TIL thank you both for sharing